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Just because… a quick picture

A week or three ago, some friends and I spent an afternoon doing a rope photoshoot in a hotel room nearby. It was hilariously good fun, and we got some amazing pictures out of it.

Unfortunately, most of those pictures show a bit too much detail to post… which is incredibly sad, because I’d love to show them off. When a friend of a friend is a hobby photographer, you can get some amazing stuff.

But there are one or two that I can share with you guys 😀

Below is one I took myself. I was experimenting with the “mermaid” tie in a bathtub (Oh my god I wish my bathroom looked like that) and it ended up looking pretty great. My lovely model had always wanted to be a mermaid… she ended up having a fantastic time with this (she’s also currently a red head, and a “little” at times, so it was very “Bondage Ariel” in there for a bit).

Nothing like a rope mermaid tail for funsies.

But the one I’m really pleased to show you is the next one, which was taken by the hobby photographer.

Often, when I’m doing a photoshoot, if someone else is taking the pictures, I’ll tell them when to take a particular shot – usually because I’m putting together a tutorial or something. So I’m busy tying and being mindful of the shot, etc.

This time, I ignored that, and focused on interacting with my model… it was much more of a “rope scene” captured on camera. I put her into dreamy rope spaces, and enjoyed every aspect of the interaction. I’ve had to crop the picture, but I feel like the photographer caught that enjoyment really well, on both sides.

It’s hard to capture moments like this on camera… I really value that photo.

It was an absolutely amazing afternoon, and a great way to spend time with rope friends. Lots of fun tying, appreciating each other’s hotness, and laughing as we took delight in creating very fun pictures.

I highly recommend it as a fun afternoon activity.

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How K Went From Zero To Hero With Rope Bondage

There’s a starting point in the journey of everyone who wants to learn rope bondage.

And that starting point can be all kinds of things, from seeing someone tied up in a movie and getting an unexpected thrill, to taking an interest in climbing and working with rope and suddenly wanting to do other things with it.

All too often though, that starting point comes about when our ever so lovely partners suddenly turn to us with little to no warning and say “I want to be tied up”.

Gulp.

internal screaming “What? Why? How do I do that?”

It’s happened to so many of us!

Today I’m sharing the story of one of my readers who got landed with that exact same challenge, and who took it on like a freaking champion. I’ve had the privilege to ask him a few questions and get more of his story, so I could share it with other people who are learning.

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The Ultimate Orgasm Machine

Orgasms are a fun thing to add into your rope bondage scenes – but with some people, it can be difficult to reliably pull them off.

This post is literally showing off the toy I recently got which changed all that – the toy that gave me the power to give an orgasm with a click of a button. It is literally the most effective tool I’ve used (and I’ve experimented with a few) so I’ve decided to actually go to the trouble to write a review for this one.

And yes, I AM smug as hell about it all.

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Managing A Sexy Rope Bondage Life When You Have Kids

There are sometimes challenges in doing rope bondage that have nothing to do with the participants, and everything to do with the environment that you’re playing in.

This post is actually in response to an email from one of my readers not so long ago; she wanted some ideas about how to incorporate a sexy rope bondage time when you have kids and an active family life.

And I thought, well yes, I can see how that would present some challenges… so let’s have a bit of a look at that. After checking in with some kinky parents I know and asking a few more questions online, I’ve come up with a few hopefully helpful ideas.

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Rope Bondage As Therapy

Rope bondage as therapy… doesn’t seem like a normal approach, right?

Earlier in the days of this blog, I advocated very strongly that people shouldn’t do rope bondage play when they have a lot of stress going on, because it can lead to some very unfortunate consequences.

I still stand by that… but I’m going to add some qualifiers, because I’ve come across some interesting and potentially useful effects of rope bondage as therapy.  Continue reading Rope Bondage As Therapy

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Freestyle Rope Bondage

Freestyle rope bondage, both in practice and in play, is one of my favorite things. I find for me personally, it’s been one of the best ways to learn some of the principles behind rope bondage, so I can create my own patterns and ties, and I think it’s one of the best methods of learning and enjoying the chance to be creative as well.

This post directly shows how freestyle rope bondage can evolve and produce some brilliant results.

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Rope Bondage Dates Vs Movie Dates

Huh.

Because I was just calculating value for money, I just worked out a quick thing in my head, which is amusing me greatly. Average cost of going to the movies is $12 plus – let’s say 15 dollars. So that’s $15 on average, doing a very normal date that lasts maybe 2 hours on average.

Let’s say I do that once a month: = $180 for 24 hours (over a year) of date/recreation time

Let’s say I do that for 3 years = $540.00 for 72 hours (over three years) of date/recreation time.

Okay, now assuming I do rope bondage scenes with my partner twice a month on average, and we end up spending oh, 2 hours a month playing with rope (let’s face it, we all know it’s going to more than that).

Based on how much I paid for my Twisted Monk Bondage Rope, in far less than 3 years time, I’ve spent less per hour enjoying insanely hot, sexy rope bondage dates, than I would have spent going to the movies for a “normal date”.

Also, my dates and my lovers are far more impressed with me, and we’ve interacted a lot more than we would if we’d spent that time at the movies.

Damn, I pick my hobbies well! 

Also, now I feel bad for vanilla people. Those poor suckers. They don’t even know! Rope bondage dates have movie dates completely beat. And you don’t even have to go out.