Over the past several days I’ve been working with several designers with regards to creating the cover for my current written project; yes, there is a new book coming out in the next few months!
Out of 50 different designs, I’ve selected my top 5, all of which I think have something going for them.
And now – I would love to have your input! After all, I’m creating this book for you, to give you knowledge and tools that will give you yet more advantages – it makes sense that you get to express an opinion and have some influence on the cover.
So here’s a link to the poll. Which cover do you like best? Which do you think will be the most suitable for the book?
At some point in every rope top’s journey, it’s useful to start thinking about indoor hard points, and how you might organize your own. You may not be thinking about full on suspending people, but the idea of tying your partner’s hands above their head has a certain appeal for a lot of people.
Post plague recovery fatigue has definitely impacted on my fun kink activities and lifestyle.
However, there has been one easy bondage activity which has required minimal effort, yet maintained a really hot, intimate vibe during my dates with kink partners.
Recently I’ve been having some very good times with tying people, and today I want to discuss one of the biggest contributing factors to a great rope scene.
When it comes to using nylon rope for bondage, I’ve procrastinated for a very long time, but have finally gotten around to getting some! Let’s call it my Christmas present to myself. So today’s post will be examining nylon rope and giving you guys a decent look at it, and at the pros and cons of using nylon rope for bondage.
Today we have a guest post from my friend Dexter, who recently conducted a whole bunch of experiments in how to remove a terrible smell from rope. This was a learning opportunity for me as well, so I’m probably going to find the learning just as useful as you will!
I’m writing this up literally the day after it happened, and it’s very fresh in my head. This review covers a few different BDSM aspects in one scene – psychological/erotic conditioning, dominance and submission, a bit of degradation, and quite a bit of rope bondage – and a situation where I actually had to cut the rope off in a bit of an emergency.
I recently received this awesome message and it was one of those “fuck yes, way to make my day!” moments.
“Hi mate, I just wanted to say a massive thank you!!!
Long story short (ish), just over a year ago I met a girl who has changed my life and opened my eyes in aaaaaall the best ways. She was already on the scene here and had been for some time whereas I was a total vanilla creature unaware of this incredible world.
She introduced me to the idea of rope and told me that she likes to be tied up. I on the other hand was never even a boy scout and sometimes struggle with my own shoelaces! Anyway, falling head over heels with her and wanting to make her dreams come true, I started the process of researching and learning all things ropey! And the first site I came across was ropeconnections.com. I spent hours reading everything I could on your site and practising the free tutorials you have posted, and discovered “Hey! I’m actually not bad at this AND its REALLY fun!” So I bought and downloaded your e-book “rope bondage the smart way” and it has become my ropey bible. The way you explain things is so clear and easy to follow. I am still learning and working on the confidence to take charge of the situation, (I’m not a natural Dom but I’m getting better!) and do often still have to refer back to tutorials while tying, which she is fine with because we are both learning and having an awesome time.
But anyway, I’m glad I have found you on FL so I can personally say “Thank You” for your work and resources. I hope you keep it up and maybe release another book with some more awesome ideas/tutorials.
Thanks Pete!!
All the way from the UK
Naylass”
I love this. He’s worked hard and continues to work hard, and in doing so is totally encouraging me to keep up my work as well, which I really appreciate.
Today I’m off sick, but recently I’ve been doing a lot of work in researching for upcoming projects.
Research is not NEARLY as fun as creating – it feels like study, honestly, even when researching stuff you love and want to use – but it’s a very necessary step towards building the knowledge base and experience necessary to create new useful things, like books and guides.
So I really appreciated that message, and that he took the trouble to send it to me. That encouragement is freaking great!
I’m going to keep working hard, studying, and learning useful things, and then create more useful guides for all you guys out there as well.
It’s a sad but true fact that having bondage furniture and a good “dungeon set up” can be problematic in most flats and apartments.
Property managers tend to not like it. Flat and apartment owners tend to not like it. Having vanilla people over for social gatherings can be awkward when they stumble across something that looks like it should belong in a dungeon.
That’s okay, because you don’t NEED obvious bondage furniture. There are tons of ways to have a delightfully hot time with a totally stealth dungeon.
This is a favorite technique for learning how to connect with your partner and very quickly increase your skill in making rope bondage sensual and connective. It’s amazingly effective and is very simple to apply.
I’m a kinky guy who once upon a time was challenged by his girlfriend to tie her up… and at the time, didn’t have a clue how.
That was six years ago.
A lot has changed since then… to the point where I’m now documenting, sharing information, and showing other people how to do all the things I couldn’t do back then.
I even wrote a book, designed to help everyone who comes here get past all the problems and difficult bits quickly, easily, and a lot more smoothly than I did.
Learning rope bondage in isolation is really, REALLY hard…
So I want to make it easier. For me, and for everyone else!
Try the “Start Here” page first; it makes it easier to find the good stuff!
