Doggy style is a great position – and sometimes you can make it even better by adding rope. That’s where the doggy style tie comes in.
Continue reading Doggy Style Tie for BondageBamboo Bondage Rope Review
Bamboo bondage rope is something I have NEVER played with before, but is something I am exceptionally happy to have now tested. Initial testing has found bamboo bondage rope to be fucking delightful, both for myself as the bondage Top, and for my partner as the bottom. More details below.
Continue reading Bamboo Bondage Rope ReviewA VERY Naughty Crotch Tie.
This is a variation on the groin tie, which is sort of part crotch tie, part hip harness. It’s simple to create, the act of tying it can often turn a woman on as she feels the pressure of the rope doing… things… and it creates a lot of access for sex and naughty play.
I’ve been having a lot of fun with it lately, and I thought I’d note it down and share it with y’all. I HIGHLY recommend using rope you’re very happy to wash. I tend to use nylon for this, but am likely to experiment in future with bamboo rope.
Continue reading A VERY Naughty Crotch Tie.Shibari Hojo Cuff Techniques
I’ve been playing with different ways of doing the hojo cuff. It’s an incredibly useful little rope move, but as with any tie, working out how to do it smoothly as a part of play can be in interesting challenge.
Here’s what I’ve got so far. It’s all about the finger work… and the dominance.
Continue reading Shibari Hojo Cuff TechniquesThe “Sleepy Shibari” Tie.
The “sleepy shibari” is a cute little tie that I learned from Wykd Dave, who had a video up a few years back.
The idea behind this “sleepy shibari” tie is that you’ve already been doing a lot of fun things with your partner, and now they’re in this sleepy, relaxed state, and probably lying face down. Being the wonderfully kind Rope Top you are, you’ve decided you can allow them to enjoy that state of rope happiness for just that little while longer… so now it’s time to add yet more rope!
Continue reading The “Sleepy Shibari” Tie.Staying Kinky and Doing Bondage In The Winter
I legitimately suck at staying consistent with incorporating bondage in winter, but I’m working on it. Hence the post. I’m acknowledging the problem, and making a plan, dammit!
Continue reading Staying Kinky and Doing Bondage In The WinterConsequences (A Spanking Scene)
The story of a delightful spanking scene…
I’m a bit sick this month, because it’s winter where I am and my whole team at work have been cheerfully exchanging winter plagues.
I got hit twice, it freaking sucks, and it’s still going on.
However, I did recently write up the story of an excellent scene. It was delightful, and it was fun, and I thoroughly enjoy remembering it.
Hope you enjoy.
Continue reading Consequences (A Spanking Scene)Making A Bondage Rope Dress
The design for this rope dress is something I wanted to learn for awhile, and I’ve finally gotten into it.
My friend Dexter has been tying bondage rope dresses onto people for literally years. I’d see them wandering about at a kinky party or event having a great time and looking kinky and hot, and think “I should really get around to learning that” and now I finally have.
It’s a really nice way to do a little bit of rope bondage that’s not too intense; when you have someone who feels like enjoying rope but can’t handle being restrained just now, this is a great way to do it.
So hey; here are some notes to enjoy on how to do it.
Continue reading Making A Bondage Rope DressChristian Red Tengu
Okay, here we go again with a DIFFERENT version of the tengu, because while the last one wasn’t a bad introduction to the tie, per se; it could have been better. So here we go.
Continue reading Christian Red TenguUsing A Shibari Frame In Your Home
I recently got the chance to test out a shibari frame in my home, and thought I’d write a quick review.
One of the problems with renting is that we often can’t have hard points or fixed points installed in our ceilings. There’s a whole variety of ways to get around that, and this is yet another.
Over in Melbourne Australia, there’s a kinky engineer who has previously been making steel frames for shibari and other uses, e.g. indoor gym or aerials, silks, etc. He’s got some mad skills, and my local kink group ended up purchasing one of his frames for using at parties.
That frame is available for borrowing by members of the group, so I went ahead and did just that, because I wanted to test it out.
Continue reading Using A Shibari Frame In Your Home