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Forced Orgasms: fantasy and implementation.

Forced orgasms are something I’ve been planning to get into for a while, but only recently did it become well within my abilities to pull off – combined with a little rope bondage, of course.

This post dives deep into the fantasy of that particular kind of play, why people find it hot, and shares a few practical tips on how you can achieve it, should you and your partner be into that sort of thing (Turns out quite a number of people really really are).

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The Ultimate Orgasm Machine

Orgasms are a fun thing to add into your rope bondage scenes – but with some people, it can be difficult to reliably pull them off.

This post is literally showing off the toy I recently got which changed all that – the toy that gave me the power to give an orgasm with a click of a button. It is literally the most effective tool I’ve used (and I’ve experimented with a few) so I’ve decided to actually go to the trouble to write a review for this one.

And yes, I AM smug as hell about it all.

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Rope Lingerie Ties

Lately I’ve been thinking more about a particular class of rope bondage that I used to think of as “decorative,” but more recently have decided is much, much sexier than that.

So now I’m thinking about and discussing the uses of “Lingerie rope bondage” and I’m going to share a few thoughts, and a couple of my favorite ties from that particular category.

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Managing A Sexy Rope Bondage Life When You Have Kids

There are sometimes challenges in doing rope bondage that have nothing to do with the participants, and everything to do with the environment that you’re playing in.

This post is actually in response to an email from one of my readers not so long ago; she wanted some ideas about how to incorporate a sexy rope bondage time when you have kids and an active family life.

And I thought, well yes, I can see how that would present some challenges… so let’s have a bit of a look at that. After checking in with some kinky parents I know and asking a few more questions online, I’ve come up with a few hopefully helpful ideas.

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Rope Bondage As Therapy

Rope bondage as therapy… doesn’t seem like a normal approach, right?

Earlier in the days of this blog, I advocated very strongly that people shouldn’t do rope bondage play when they have a lot of stress going on, because it can lead to some very unfortunate consequences.

I still stand by that… but I’m going to add some qualifiers, because I’ve come across some interesting and potentially useful effects of rope bondage as therapy.  Continue reading Rope Bondage As Therapy

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Freestyle Rope Bondage

Freestyle rope bondage, both in practice and in play, is one of my favorite things. I find for me personally, it’s been one of the best ways to learn some of the principles behind rope bondage, so I can create my own patterns and ties, and I think it’s one of the best methods of learning and enjoying the chance to be creative as well.

This post directly shows how freestyle rope bondage can evolve and produce some brilliant results.

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Rope Bondage Dates Vs Movie Dates

Huh.

Because I was just calculating value for money, I just worked out a quick thing in my head, which is amusing me greatly. Average cost of going to the movies is $12 plus – let’s say 15 dollars. So that’s $15 on average, doing a very normal date that lasts maybe 2 hours on average.

Let’s say I do that once a month: = $180 for 24 hours (over a year) of date/recreation time

Let’s say I do that for 3 years = $540.00 for 72 hours (over three years) of date/recreation time.

Okay, now assuming I do rope bondage scenes with my partner twice a month on average, and we end up spending oh, 2 hours a month playing with rope (let’s face it, we all know it’s going to more than that).

Based on how much I paid for my Twisted Monk Bondage Rope, in far less than 3 years time, I’ve spent less per hour enjoying insanely hot, sexy rope bondage dates, than I would have spent going to the movies for a “normal date”.

Also, my dates and my lovers are far more impressed with me, and we’ve interacted a lot more than we would if we’d spent that time at the movies.

Damn, I pick my hobbies well! 

Also, now I feel bad for vanilla people. Those poor suckers. They don’t even know! Rope bondage dates have movie dates completely beat. And you don’t even have to go out.